Her Own Best “Friend”: Flying Solo At Last, OUDi Is More Together When She’s Alone
Sometimes your most rewarding relationship is the one you have with yourself. Over the course of a career that’s taken her from Canada to Nashville—and from the alt-pop/industrial world to the country arena and back again—the phenomenon known as OUDi has learned that lesson all too well. And she’s sharing it on “My Old Friend,” an irresistible high-drama ballad that marks her debut as a solo artist after years of sharing the spotlight.
Built on a plaintive instrumental melody and a mesmerizing clockwork rhythm, the song carries the emotional weight of a conversation you have in the mirror when there’s no one left around to hoodwink. OUDi’s compelling vocal starts off at a seductive purr as she confronts an inner solitude, she might not exactly welcome, but knows she can always count on:
Hello loneliness, can’t say I missed you
But let me tell you this, now I need you
The internal co-dependency fully acknowledged, her amazing voice opens up into a bittersweet embrace of the darkness:
Go and do that thing you do, make me feel and lose my mind
‘Cause I have nothing left to lose, you’ve been waiting all this time
I dare you come a little closer and rest your head upon my shoulder.
This isn’t just a declaration of artistic independence; it’s the story of a life. Born Chrystal Oudijk, she was out of the house and supporting herself by age 16, while pursuing her musical muse through a variety of projects. There was the five-piece alternative band The Perfect Strangers, the pop-industrial project Jakalope (for producer Dave “Rave” Ogilvie), and then—most famously—the pop-country duo Sons of Daughters (with Jimmy Thow). She was Chrystal Leigh by that point, and finding such success as a Billboard-charting, CCMA Award-nominated artist that she had even moved to Nashville from her native Vancouver. There was just one problem:
“Jimmy and I struggled as creative partners,” she divulges. “Add in alcohol, anxiety & depression and we had ourselves a real party!”
The near loss of a family member due to addiction and the confusion of the early pandemic era only deepened her dissatisfaction. When Sons of Daughters parted ways, she took two years to regroup, rethink, and write her very first solo album. The release of “My Old Friend” is the opening salvo in her new career—strike that, her new state of being—as OUDi. It also sounds the death knell for what she describes as an adulthood full of toxic relationships and creative compromises.
“I’ve been living in survival mode my entire life,” she reflects. “It’s only been in the past two years I’ve been training my nervous system to relax. I’m excited to finally put my stories to song, for I have a lot of them.”
The year 2024 is going to mark a real renaissance for this woman, she even directed the music video for “My Old Friend,” exploiting a side talent she’s cultivated during her recent period of self-emancipation and reinvention. Her explanation for all of it is as sanguine as the song is bleak, yet equally self-aware:
“I guess it goes to show when you start to live your life authentically and true to yourself, magic really can happen.”
Care to introduce yourself?
Of course! My name is Chrystal Oudijk (pronounced Owwww Dike!) and I am an alternative pop artist from Vancouver, Canada, currently residing in Nashville, TN.
Tell us about the process of recording “My Old Friend”?
It took me some time after my last project (Sons of Daughters) to sort out my recording process. For the past few years, my last band would take an acoustic demo to session players in Nashville, and within 3-4 live-off-the-floor takes, you would have your fully produced complete song (sans vocals). It was a remarkable process, to watch these mind-blowing musicians work and bring a song to life after only hearing it for the first time that day. But it did make me miss the days when a band or artist would go into the studio with a producer and eat, breathe, and sleep music until the record was done. I swear, back then, we were different people once an album was finished. I brought back a bit of an old school recording process for this record. I wrote “My Old Friend” on the piano in my bedroom and then brought it to Dave “Rave” Ogilvie, who I used to be in “Jakalope” with and he brought in Anthony “Fu” Valcic, both mastermind synth programmers and audio mix engineers. We hung out at Fu’s home studio, located in British Columbia and we recorded all the synths and some vocals. It was such a memorable experience, to wake up, make breakfast with your friends, go on walks, and work in the studio till the wee hours. Afterward, I took what we had done to some of my favorite musicians in Nashville and finished the record with my producer, Andrew King, at a live-off-the-floor session in his studio. Andrew is a true musician and a true producer, this song wouldn’t be what it is without his musical ear and guitar playing.
What’s it like being an artist in Nashville?
It’s extremely humbling and inspiring all at the same time. I’ve never met or seen so much talent in one place in my entire life. It definitely keeps me on my toes.
Who was the first and most recent Canadian artist to blow you away?
Offfff, that’s a tough one. I was a massive Holly McFarland fan…I used to scream “Numb” at the top of my lungs, along with Chantal Kreviazuk’s “Wayne”, Big Wreck’s “That Song” & Bif Naked’s “Spaceman” A few months ago, I was blown away by Alanis Morissette live. That show inspired me to take a deep dive into her lyrics, man, she’s a freaking genius. I’m also a big fan of The Weeknd, his beats are so dirty and I’m obsessed with his use of 80’s synth sounds.
You’ve been making music for a bit of time now, what’s one piece of advice you can offer to those starting out?
In my experience, the one thing that truly separates talent from talent is drive & work ethic, without those two you really don’t have anything. And to never compare yourself to others, be the world’s cheerleader, and remember that abundance thinking attracts abundance.